Should you throw a baby shower for the second, third or so child or should you only throw one for the firstborn?
Why do we celebrate baby shower in the first place? We do so to celebrate the blessing of a new life. Having that in mind, then whether its the second, third, fourth or so baby, celebrate them all because it’s a blessing of a new life.
Although there might be a difference between the firstborn and the second and succeeding babies, in the sense that first time moms or parents needed the support and love, because it’s all new to them. But for the second time around or so, the baby shower could be a little laid back and simpler, not because it’s no longer exciting. But, because by now the expecting mom or parents already know what to expect. Emotionally, mentally, and physically they already know what to do and how to cope.
In terms of the baby and mom essentials, there might not be so much need on that because they (the mom or parents) most likely already have what they need. Perhaps a little assistance here and there, but nothing like the first time.
This does not mean that the baby shower is not as fun as the one thrown for the firstborn. In fact, it is going to even be more special because, this time you can choose to have an intimate baby shower. Now its not so much about the gifts, although they are important, ofcourse. But, this time it is more about the conversation and being together.
So, for some ideas you can organize for a brunch or an intimate dinner with the “girls only” – the mom and her closest friends. You can also have like a barbecue in your garden or garage with the family and relatives.
Another idea could be a pajama party with girls, a sleep-over and binge watch chick flicks. Perhaps you can organize a small group with the mom’s besties and do some quilting or decorating the nursery or doing some crafts and artsies for the nursery while having some snacks. You can also have the girls spend the day in the kitchen and do some baking and cooking or perhaps spend the day on a salon for an all-day pampering.
The idea is not so much about showering the expecting mom or parents with gifts, but its about spending quality time together and enjoying each other’s company, celebrating mommyhood or parenthood, and above all the coming of a new bundle of joy.
Nothing beats a baby shower that allows for some great conversation and memorable moments of laughters. And for the expecting mom or parents to be able to share their joy with the people closest and dearest to them.
So don’t think that because its the nth baby, then no need for a baby shower. Go ahead and celebrate and have fun.