Baby Shower

Halloween Themed Baby Shower

Almost every baby shower follow the same formula: pink and glitter for baby girl and blue and cowboy hats for baby boy, cakes and fruity mocktails, and lots of fun and exciting baby shower games like diaper challenge or guessing games.

What if the mom-to-be is expecting her bundle of joy around October 31 or November 1? Why not try for once to stray away from the tradition and try the halloween theme for your baby shower. I bet it will be spooky and exciting, and a totally unique experience.

If you decide to explore this theme, consult the mom-to-be or the parents-to-be if they are comfortable to have one of her baby showers following a holloween theme.

GUEST LIST
Once decided, the first thing to do is to list down the interesting and fun holloween or spooky characters like ghosts, goblins,  ghouls, among many others. These characters will be a.k.a your guest list.

HAUNTED DECORATIONS
Next up is to create an environment that gives you and the guests the spooky feel. Make your venue and the celebration fun and memorable by putting decorations and backdrops that look like the haunted mansion.

SCARY PARTY FAVORS
Regardless of the theme, it ain’t a party without food and sweet favors. You can be creative on this and have something like boozy beverages and scary delicious desserts. You can have something like bloody drinks, and cupcakes or cookies designed with frightful figures.

SOUND EFFECT
For added fun and holloween feel, it’s best to have sound playing in the background  like the scary laughter or sound of a squeking door or scary birds or forrest wolves.

And ofcourse, you don’t want to give your guests the creeps, so try to include some cherry side of the holloween. You can have some cake toppers that says something like “a baby is brewing” or give-away little pumpkin soaps or scented candles.

Lastly, don’t miss out on the scary games and ask guests if they are cool with wearing scary or holloween costumes. And then set-up a holloween photo booth for mementos.

Now, don’t get it wrong. It does not mean when you say holloween theme, that it has to look and feel so freaking scary to the core.  I mean you don’t want to stress out the mom-to-be and the guests, and give them nightmares. What you want to achieve is to have a mix of scary and scary cute. There is a cute side to halloween, and that is what you want to embrace.

Predict the Baby’s Gender on a Baby Shower

There are a lot of fun activities you can do during a baby shower. There are so many games from paired to group games that everyone can surely enjoy.

Some parents-to-be opt to find out their baby’s gender during pregnancy, because they want the baby shower theme to be gender focused. So, they wait until the ultrasound can already identify the baby’s gender.

For some, they prefer to be surprised and go for unisex theme for their baby shower.

Actually there are many  fun ways to predict whether the mom-to-be is expecting a baby boy or girl. There are no scientific truth to these activities, but often they turn out right. Although they are not rooted in fact, but it can actually be real fun to play with friends and family at a baby shower.

Here are some fun ways or methods in predicting the baby’s gender. You might find them interesting to include as one your baby shower activities.

  1.   NUMBER METHOD
This is an ancient chinese method of guessing the baby’s gender, using some mathematics. This has been used six centuries before the ultrasound came out. It uses calendar cross reference of the mom-to-be’s age and the month of conception. Centuries ago, women also use this method in determining if it’s the best month to get pregnant with a boy or girl. It may not have scientific proof, but it does predict the baby’s gender quite well.

  2.   APPEARANCE METHOD
It’s another old method of predicting baby’s gender by looking at the mom-to-be’s belly. If the mom-to-be’s belly is carrying it low and the bump looks like a basketball, then she is pregnant with a baby girl. If she is carrying her belly high and her bump resembles that of a watermelon shape, then she is expecting a baby boy.

  3.   DIRECTION TESTS
This one is really fun. Place a ring on a thread and then dangle it over the mom-to-be’s belly. If it swings back and forth, then she is expecting a baby boy. But, if it swings in a circular motion, then is more likely to have baby girl. Everyone can actually watch closely, that’s why it’s exciting and fun.

You can actually do all these on baby shower. You can gather all the mom-to-be’s guests to watch or participate, and you’ll have lots of laughters and excitement.

Finally, there is the so-called “intuition” of the mom-to-be, and her feeling whether she is pregnant with a boy or girl is correct 70 to 75 percent of the time. And the percentage of getting it right increases with her second, third or so pregnancy. So, mom-to-be should trust themeselves in preparing for her impending bundle of joy, because chances are she is correct.

Free Baby Shower Invitations

Warning: Creating your own baby shower invitations can be hazardous to your health

I say that half jokingly, but let me share a little story with you to show you what I mean.

After the story, I’ll give you some great tips about creating your own baby shower invitations, which I learnt the hard way from trial and error.

I wanted to pull my hair out…

The first time I planned a baby shower, I was on a tight budget, but I realized how important the invitations were, so I wanted them to be perfect. After all, the invitations create the first impression of the party. And let’s face it, if they’re boring or ugly, the invited guests will subconsciously start off with a bad taste in their mouth.

Admittedly, I’m not a very artistic person, so my first experience trying to create my own baby shower invitations from scratch using free images and card templates I found on the Internet almost caused me to pull my hair out! It took so much time and energy that it almost drove me crazy.

And the printing. Don’t even get me started on that!

I designed a folding card with words on the inside, so I had to run the card through my inkjet printer twice – once for the front of the card and once for the inside. I kept putting them in the wrong way and printing the words upside down! Yeah…I’m spatially challenged 🙂

What a waste of money and paper it was. My printer also struggled with the thickness of the card stock. A couple of times, the paper got stuck and it kept printing over and over on the same line. What a disaster! Let’s just say that my printing adventure caused me to blow my budget.

Anyway, the invitations turned out quite nice, and my girlfriend was pleased, but it was not an experience I care to repeat ever again. I’ve thrown many parties since (my friends call me the “Baby Shower Queen” now) and now I find it easy and stress-free (actually fun!) to create invitations but it took lots of trial and error and research online.

If you want to avoid the same sort of catastrophe and just want to get going, here is a fabulous site that I find to be tremendously helpful. I always get my cards here.

Finestationary.com – I just love this site. It has so many beautiful cards, I often lose myself while I’m there! Lots and lots of fabulous choices. Prices range from inexpensive to expensive. You can get blank cards if you want to create your own design or print the cards by yourself, as well as pre-printed cards.

You can also personalize your card by changing the wording, the type style and ink color. There’s even a neat little feature to help you with the wording on the card. Once you’ve personalized the card, you can preview what it will look like. Very cool!

How to create your own shower invitations
only for the brave of heart

1. The first thing you’ll want to do is decide whether you want a flat card or a folding card.

I highly recommend you choose a flat card because if you’re planning on doing the printing yourself, they are much easier to deal with.

2. The next thing you want to decide what kind of paper to use for the cards. For example, you can use standard photocard paper or cardstock.

I recommend using a medium to heavy weight card stock, about 65-104 Ib. This is important because if the paper is too thin, the card will feel cheap and flimsy, which will create a bad impression (if only subconsciously).

Important! Remember that the thicker the paper, the harder it will be for your printer to handle. Make sure your printer is compatible with the paper before you buy!

One example of blank cards is “Personal Creations Ink Jet Greeting Cards” (by Avery). You should be able to get them at your local office supply or stationery store.

Another alternative is at finestationery.com. Click on “BABY” at the top, then select “Price” in the drop down menu on the right. There you’ll see several choices for a whole set of blank cards with envelopes in pretty colors.

3. Once you’ve bought some cardstock, you’ll want to set up Microsoft Word or whichever word processing software you use to design your card.

Create a template that is the same size as the cardstock. Click on File > Page Setup > Page tab, and then choose the size from the Paper Size drop-down menu.

4. If you want to add a background image or various images, you can get some free clipart directly from MS Word by choosing the Insert menu > Picture > Clip Art One thing about the MS Word clip art is it looks kind of cheesy to be honest.

You can also insert a photograph of the expecting mother on the card. You’ll just need a digital photo of her to do that. Insert menu > Picture > From File …

A site I highly recommend for clipart is istockphoto.com.

If you want to write a message over the picture or image, right-click on the image > Format Picture… > Layout tab > Behind text.

You can then write your message on top of the image.

5. Now it’s time to add text to your card. Try different fonts to see which one suits your card the best. I like the brush scripts the best, but it depends on what looks best for your card.

6. The last step is to print the cards. If you’re printing them yourself, I suggest doing a test run on regular paper first so you don’t waste the special paper for the cards, which can be expensive.

Make sure you’re totally happy with the way everything looks before doing the actual printing.

When you’re happy with everything, print only one card with the thick cardstock to begin with just to make sure you’re printer can handle the paper properly.

If that one goes perfect, then you’re ready to print the entire batch!

An alternative to consider for printing is taking your MS Word file to your local print shop for printing. The quality will be excellent…but it will be costly.

Another possibility is to use an online printing shop like vistaprint.com. All you do is upload your design (you’ll need to convert your MS Word file into Adobe PDF format), and they’ll print your cards for you and send them to you.As you’ve heard a million times before, nothing in life is free. While it’s nice to use your creativity and artistic ability to create the cards yourself, and your girlfriend will surely appreciate your effort, quality blank cards, printer ink and envelopes will actually end up costing about the same as personalized pre-designed cards.

Also, don’t forget your time (and sanity 🙂 ).

Be prepared to spend lots of time designing your own cards if you’re doing it for the first time. From my experience, you’ll get the best and quickest results from an online card company where you can personalize the cards the way you want.

Baby Shower Cards

I KNOW how important it is to get a new mother off to a good start.
That’s why I am going to share my secret with you. You will be very happy
when you go here.

You see, when I threw my first baby shower for my next youngest sister
NOBODY came. I was VERY embarrassed and she felt like no one cared at
all about her and her new baby. That SUCKED.

So I thought what is the 1 thing that can help get a baby shower off to a good
start. Well the baby shower cards or invitations. Of course. So when my youngest
sisters baby came along I resolved to do it RIGHT. So I did a LOT of research and
found this place.

So I want to save you all the time an hassle went through. Remember that
the theme of your baby shower is VERY important too. You want to make sure
you get your new mother off to a good start. So check this site out and do a little
planning. Do not wait till the last second.

New mothers especially need all the help they can get.

Life and Love
Marisa

Wonderful Cakes Make for Wonderful Parties

Baby Shower Cakes

Want to make beautiful cakes, or are you busy being a hostess planning the Baby Showers? Well, I found this is great book on
Cake Decorating For Dummies

, the best I have seen! It is so well written with easy to understand ideas for really cute, unique baby shower cakes!

There are themes with ideas on how to carry the theme through the invitations to the decorations and food. It inspires you to think beyond the traditional Baby Shower with great ideas and useful tips. You’ll have as much fun decorating the Cake as your guests will have enjoying it!

I gave a baby shower for my best friend, using a combination of ideas gathered from this book, and everyone raved! I have recommended this book to others who want to give a great baby shower cake for someone!!
This fun, instructive guide gives you simple techniques for creating cakes.

…a bit more about Baby Shower Cakes

There expert advice in all the basics, from baking to icing to decorating with style. You’ll also find delicious foolproof recipes, great ideas for themed cakes, and savvy tips for starting a cake decorating business!

Happy Baby Shower Cakes!

Baby Shower Cakes

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