In my previoua posts we’ve shared with the do’s and don’ts when it comes to hosting, planning for the guest list, choosing the date and venue. Now let look into ‘gift registry.’ This can raise some etiquette concerns when not planned well. But, these etiquette concerns can be handled easily when planned well, and all matters significant are taken into consideration.
Back then, it is the mom-to-be who plan for the gift registry, she then passes it on to the host or the one who will throw the baby shower. Today, the mom-to-be can work on the gift registry with the dad-to-be, along with the host of the shower.
Why is there a need to have a gift registry?
The reason why it is necessary to have gift registry is to help shopping for baby shower gifts easier for guests, and also ensure that the mom-to-be and her baby gets what they need. So, once you have the gift registry, include this information in the invitation that will be sent out to the guests.
FOR THE MOM-TO-BE
When you are preparing for the gift registry, consider the BUDGET and the TIME of you friends, colleagues, and family, who are in your guest list, in purchasing these gifts. You may include price range and different options of gift items that are available in stores accessible to your guests. Don’t put gift items that need to be ordered or personalized or made-to-order stuff.
In case you are wondering what does a registry typically include? These are items such as basic baby items like diapers or baby bottles and the likes. It can also include bigger items like baby crib, stroller, changing table or carrier and others.
If this is your second, third or so child, then you may already have most of the essential items like baby crib or stroller and other items that may be passed down from one baby to the next. Instead, list down staples items that you need plenty of like diapers, baby wipes, lotion, bath soap and the likes.
If for instance it’s your first time to have a baby girl after maybe two boys or vice versa, then list down items that will allow your guests to purchase something that is gender appropriate, like girly baby stuff and toys or the other way around – clothes and toys for boys.
FOR THE GUESTS
If on the other hand, you are a guest, then remember that you are not limited to getting only the items from the registry. It will be very much appreciated if you plan to gift the mom-to-be more items, not in the registry, but you think she’ll need or will be good for the baby.
Bottomline is that the gifts listed in the registry are the items the mom-to-be believe she needs, it will help her greatly if she could have most of those items in the registry, if not all. But, remember to give from your heart. You are special and dear to the mom-to-be or parents-to-be, so gift her or them what reflects your relationship. And to express your joy, and love and support.