One of the most difficult parts of being a new mom is getting sleep time to be part of a positive and peaceful process. Often it is stressful and women tend to get very over tired and overwhelmed. You can find a lot of advice on the Internet and from other moms and nurses, but you just have to experiment and find a balance that works for you.
Developing a routine with your baby is very important. While some people really like routines, other people have trouble following them – however, it is really worth sticking at it as you will be able to avoid some problems if you do. You should also try to keep your baby calm around bed times and you can plan activities such as a warm bath and quiet snuggles before bub is put to bed. Try not to have too many people nurse the baby as this can be over stimulating for them.
Before you even get to meet your new baby you should try to set up their bedroom or sleeping space well to ensure good ventilation and comfort for the baby and you. An armchair is particularly useful in the nursery. A convertible crib is a useful option for the baby to sleep in as they can be altered to meet their needs from infancy up to going into a normal bed. There are also many designs that allow the crib to be folded and transported to other places easily.
When you are buying your crib try to think long term. Even if you know your baby’s sex already if you are thinking of having more children, then you should not opt for a pink or blue crib. A convertible crib natural colored is probably the most useful option and can be easily used for later babies or to sell.
When you have bought the crib you will have to get the bedding collection. You will need about three sets of sheets to ensure that you have one ready to go at all times.
When your baby has passed the six month mark, many moms try to do controlled crying to get them to settle themselves and go to sleep when they wake up. It can be very stressful to hear your baby crying, so some moms do not choose to follow this technique. There are other things that you can do and if you are unsure or feeling like you are not coping then seek the help of a baby nurse.
You should only try controlled crying after six months and before two years if you are sure that your baby is getting enough cuddles, attention and care during the day. It should also be used as part of a positive bedtime routine for you and your baby.