In my previous posts we’ve learned of the primary do’s and don’ts for baby showers. Starting off with who should host or throw the baby shower, followed by the guest list – who to invite.
We’ve also learned that baby shower can be thrown more than once, that way allowing more family and friends of the mom-to-be or parents-to-be to share with the celebration and extend their love and support.
Now that we’ve identified who should throw the baby shower and planned the guest list, what’s next?
When and Where to have the Baby Shower
When you are planning to have the baby shower is just as important as where you plan to do it. The best times to have the shower is later on the pregnancy, when the expecting mom has gone past the morning sickness, cramps and other early pregnancy discomforts, so that she may be able to enjoy the party. Usually, aroud six weeks before the due date is the best time, but it is significant to consult the mom-to-be or parents-to-be on this. Once you have the date, make sure that you give your guest ample time to prepare for the shower. Send out invitations atleast four weeks before so that they can save the date, and also for guests who may be out of town can make travel plans.
The venue where you plan to do the shower is really dependent on the number of guests invited. You can hold the shower in rented places or in the mom-to-be’s place. If you plan to have it in the mom-to-be’s place, just make sure it won’t cause extra stress to her, like for the preparations or the cleaning afterwards.
Now that you have the time and place, what other matters can raise baby shower etiquette concerns? We’ll share with you in the next posts. Stay tuned.